13 cultural differences between America and Overseas

A lot of international students feel the culture shock when they come to the USA. Here is a list of some cultural differences that usually hit us international students.

Coming to the USA as an international student does not only mean to deal with the language barrier but also to adjust to the Culture which is sometimes rough for foreigners. In America there are certain things that are seen as taboo but these same things are common in foreign countries. When I came to the US, I was confronted to this change. It sure took me some time to adapt. Here is my subjective list of the things that I thought were really different.

  1. In some African countries, saying that a person is old is a sign of respect because by being old comes the wisdom but here in America it’s offending and disrespectful to refer to someone as old.
  2. In Africa I notice that many people do their daily activities without caring about the notion of time but here in America people stare at their watch all the time.
  3. In Africa there is no secret, everybody knows each other’s business because of the community-type way of living but here in America people are more private.
  4. In Africa men usually don’t talk about their feelings and emotions but in America people are more open about it.
  5. Overseas people don’t really smile at strangers unless they like that person but here in America, especially at JMU you get smiled at a lot!
  6. Overseas, especially in Africa (and I’ve heard from my friends, Asia) parents or professors are never wrong, even when they are, it is kept on the low and it’s really impolite to tell them they are wrong but here in America students argue with teachers sometimes and children argue with their parents.
  7. In Africa, speaking many languages is common due to the difference in ethnicity but in America speaking many languages makes one feel really special.
  8. In America most people spend much of their time working and working whereas in Africa people give more time to their family which they consider to be the most important pillar.
  9. Compared to Africa people here in America are more straight forward.
  10. In America eating outside is more common whereas in Africa people rarely eat meals outside
  11. In America, celebration in family is really big. Birthdays, anniversaries and other types of events are huge here.
  12. One thing that I was shocked with is that a lot of people when they become elderly they go to retirement homes. In Africa most a lot of people do not even know what retirement home is.
  13. As a want-to-be doctor I have to add an input about health. Here in America most people use modern medicine as a first resort for treatment whereas in Africa or Asia people usually use traditional medicine. Modern medicine is used as a fast remedy or when traditional medicine is ineffective.
Being an international student in the USA has been an eye-opener for me in so many ways!

 

Summertime at James Madison University

Enjoying the natural beauty of Shenandoah Valley with friends from James Madison University

Enjoying the view in Shenandoah Valley

James Madison University with its particular location near the Shenandoah Valley, gives its students a wonderful view and a wide range of outdoor activities to enjoy during free time, and especially in the summer.

Even though it is not officially summer yet in the US, the weather sure feels like summertime: every day we get to enjoy some 80 degrees and the leaves started to turn green. A good sunny weather here in America means having fun, stay outside whenever it’s sunny and do some outdoor stuff. In West Africa where I’m from, it get so hot that when I came here to America, being under the sun was the last thing I wanted to do. But my Freshman Year when winter started (that was my first time to see snow) that’s when I have come to same conclusion as most people here in America: I was eager for summer to come back!

After a successful semester, it was time to take a break and not think about school for a while. My friends and I, we’ve been taking full advantage of the resources around Harrisonburg. The recreation center of JMU has many types of equipment for outdoor activities. As a student one can rent canoes, sleeping bags, tents etc…basically all that is needed for having fun in the mountains. As JMU students we feel spoiled if outdoor activity is one’s favorite thing to do: there is the Shenandoah National Park for camping and Skyland camp not too far.

Learning to roller skate at JMU

During summer some students also prefer the indoor stuff. People usually play bowling, go to the movies and go to the shopping mall. As for me, the highlight of my indoor activities so far is Roller Skating. I just did roller skating for the first time ever. I learnt a life lesson from that. At the beginning I fell a lot but I did not give up, I kept trying and trying. With a little aid and advices from the pros, I learnt the basics and from that I was finally able to roll smoothly. The lesson is that you don’t have the choice when it comes to fall from an experience but the choice that is yours is if you want to give up and remain down or if you want to get back up and try again. I felt that way when I first came to the US; studying in English was hard and time consuming, sometimes it did not go as well as I wanted. I was even thinking of just transferring to France where I wouldn’t have that language barrier issue but my friend kept telling me that I already made it far and not to run away from difficulty. I listened to him, I took advantage of the resources and the help that was offered to us international students through the International Study Center programs and I made it. That is to say sometimes in life things may not be colorful but at the end of the day we have the choice to make it better: like they say in America “No pain, No gain.”

 

Experiencing a 4-Year University in America

Going to a 4-year University in America is a promising and predominantly an unforgettable experience that one can have.

In the USA, there are two major types of Universities: there are 2-year colleges (also referred to as Community Colleges) and the 4-year universities like James Madison University.

Some people prefer to start with community college. One of the reasons for that is because community college is way cheaper than university. The typical path for them is to start with community college for the first 2 years, taking some General education requirements and then transfer to a 4-year University and take their major courses. JMU made that path possible because it accepts credits from many community colleges especially the ones in Virginia. The good thing about JMU is that there are community colleges not too far from campus so one can be taking classes at JMU and also take classes in community colleges in the vicinity at the same time. That’s one good way to save money. In the US, it can be really easy to save money, you just have to know the system and look for the information.

However, attending a 4-year University since the beginning, I think would be good for several reasons:

  1. after a 2 years community college, we have to transfer to a 4 years University anyway.
  2. by being in a place for a longer time we get more familiar with the environment, with the people and we also learn more about that university’s system. It is harder to make yourself a name by building a good academic record and a social “crew” when you are new somewhere, but if you are there since the beginning that for sure makes it easier.
graduation at James Madison University

Purple and gold - graduation at James Madison University

Talking about 4 years University, at JMU a week ago we just had a graduation ceremony. Saying good bye to people I met since freshman year was a little hard but that was a wakeup call for me. That wakeup call was to take advantage of every single moment while I’m here at University because after all, these 4 years pass by really fast. These four years may not be the longest in our lives but they certainly can be the most memorable four years of our lives. I’m saying that because I am one year away from graduation and I feel sad already about it.

We have to use these 4 years very wisely and make it become if not the best four years of our life, the most profitable for our future. I’ve known people who used these 4 years to improve themselves or to make friends and party or to figure themselves out or to get ready for a longer path of study just like myself and my goals of going to medical school.

One thing is sure, when we become degree holders, we are not the same person who first walked in the gates of the University with a thirst to discover to learn and to adventure. I have learned so much and grown in so many ways – LIFE, here I come!

 

Why join an honor society at university?

Joining an honor society has countless of benefits. On campus, there are different organizations that one can join. There are different types of organizations ranging from social organizations (fraternities) to academic ones (honor organizations) so one will find one where he/she fits the most.

Despite being involved in many activities on campus, I recently decided to join an honor society. At first I was hesitating but after doing some research I realized that there is no reason for not joining one.

The honor society that I joined is called Golden Key International Honour Society. On campus there are other honor societies such as Phi Beta Kappa(the oldest honor society) or Phi Kappa Phi. They have some points in common such as they only recruit the top 10% or 15% students of the University and usually one can join only by invitation. So in order to be guaranteed a place there, we got to study hard and get a good GPA so we can be spotted and be offered a membership. There is a onetime fee at the beginning but once a member, it lasts for a lifetime!

My 'Golden Key Honour Society' pin

Being a member of an Honor Society gives one the opportunity to meet people. When I became a member of Golden Key International Honour society, there were 150 other students also joining with me. With such a big number of people, one can broaden his network and meet people who may have the same goals in the future so it’s a great way to build a friendly and professional network.

Golden Key and other Honor Societies also have many partners such as insurance companies, phone companies, restaurant etc… so once a member you can get reduction from all the partners. On the long run, the accumulation of reductions we get from the partners pays up for the membership fee.

Golden Key International Honour Society unlike many others is globally recognized. Golden key has chapters in different countries. Another asset of Golden Key is that it offers its members some leadership positions and helps them improve their communication skills. That was one of the reasons I joined and once I joined I decided to run for the Vice president position and I got it!!! The aim of most of the Honor Societies is to have a positive impact on the community with volunteer works.

Honor societies also offer some academic and professional benefits to its members. They have their own scholarships (Undergrad and sometimes for even Grad school) that only the members can apply to. With a limited number of people the odds of winning are much greater than University scholarships where more people apply to. Concerning the preparation of a career, some Honor Societies for example Golden Key, have career fairs held only for the members. It’s a great way to meet employers and maybe an easier access to the dream job. Golden Key International Honour Society also has internships for its members.

The other good part about being a member of an honor society is that with that on your resume, in a job interview or interview for grad school or medical school, the interviewer already knows that he is dealing with the top 10% of the school and that is already a plus.

With all that in mind, when you receive an invitation to join an Honor Society there is no reason not to join

Academic advising at University in USA

 

When studying at University in the US, students should really take advantage of the resources that are offered by going to see their advisor or professor on a regular basis. Academic advising is offered at all universities and is a student’s right.

 I noticed that many students, especially international students don’t go see their advisors or professors for help – they are a very important academic resource for us! I spoke with some of them and many of them think that it’s a sort of shame to seek for help. Others are even frightened about the idea of going to see a professor. They are worried of being seen as an unintelligent person. I think if that’s the major concern then it shouldn’t be one anymore:

  1. because being in a huge class, if we go see the professor for help, the chances of him/her remembering us are really slim,
  2. we are students; we are supposed to learn and ask questions. Making mistakes and not getting it sometimes is normal. We then have to ask those who can help us.

In University, if we think about it from this point of view, we spend thousands of dollars in order to get the best education. If we need help in one of the classes, going to see the professor for help is one of the most normal and expected things to do. Advisors and professors are here for us. They are not just the persons who grade our papers. If approaching them for the first time is one’s concern, that shouldn’t be a barrier because besides teaching classes professors wish to know their students more personally. Especially here at JMU some faculty members (professors, advisors…) are pretty friendly. Some even have lunch with students in order to get to know them better.

One thing that we also need to consider about Universities is that the classrooms are way too big for the professor to be the one reaching out to students. That’s why we have to put our 2nd thoughts (shame, fear etc…) aside and be the one reaching out to them by going see them whenever we can.

As an international student, I am aware of this barrier caused by cultural beliefs. In my country for example some people think that seeking for help is a sign of weakness. Having grown up in this environment, I used to not go seek for help when I needed to, at first. Now, I seek help when I need it!

One cool thing is that professors and other staff members have connections. So they may be aware of some scholarships or anything that one may be eligible for. So going to see them first makes them spot you and they may offer you some stuff that you would have never known about.

If reaching professors when needed is still a major barrier to overcome then looking for help among friends is another option. Getting the information is key. Reaching professors and advisors is not a waste of their time or a waste of our time but on the other hand remaining silent when we don’t understand something is a waste of money and opportunities. Seeking for help is a “must-do” not a shame.

Why James Madison University?

 

Why did I choose James Madison University? It’s been almost 3 years now that I am studying at James Madison University, I so am excited to graduate next year but I do not want to leave JMU. Most of my friends who are graduating this May also have the same thought: they do not want to leave “JMU-Land”. Everybody that comes here at JMU feels the need to come back again. What is so special about JMU that makes people so attracted like that?

Inauguration ceremony at James Madison University

Inauguration ceremony at James Madison University

Two weeks ago, we just had the inauguration of our new president Jonathan Alger. He gave such a wonderful speech about “WHY MADISON”, presenting some of the countless assets of JMU. Some of the things that he said were that James Madison University offers a really nice education and at a lower cost than private universities in the USA. I completely agree with that. As a student of JMU I can testify about the positive aura that JMU has on people. By talking to some random people at the mall in Maryland, their recognition of JMU made me feel so proud of going to JMU.

Besides the good food we provide (top 5 best campus food in the Nation!) and the friendly campus we have, JMU is a renowned University for the quality of education it provides. Even this summer while I was in Uganda (East Africa), some people asked me what University I go to and I told them I go to JMU (not expecting them to know anything about it since it doesn’t have the fame of Harvard for example) and I was impressed  about how much they knew about JMU already. That made me feel so proud about being a duke.

As I progress in my studies at JMU, I got to know more about how things work. I get amazed about how influential JMU is in the country and how well-ranked among US universities. Many of our teachers are on the top 300 best professors of the Nation according to the Princeton Review (http://www.princetonreview.com/uploadedFiles/Sitemap/Home_Page/Rankings/Best_Professors/BestProfessors_Name.pdf) . JMU also carries out some cutting edge researches that are published in respected journals.

International students holding flags at university in the USA

Representing my country at James Madison University

The new president also talked about some other aspects of JMU that are attractive to many people. He pointed out the international students’ community at JMU. At the beginning of the ceremony, us international students carried the flags of our country. It was such a great and meaningful moment walking with our nation’s flag. That shows that international students have their place at JMU.

This year, just like I did last year, I went to the portfolio presentation of the International Study Center students that will be matriculating to become full-time JMU students just like me. I was impressed about how ambitious they are and I really support this way of thinking. I believe that in life one must set himself some goals and work as hard as he can to achieve those goals. More about my ambitions can be found on the following link, an article I wrote for JMU (http://jmubethechange.wordpress.com/2013/01/07/with-a-little-help-from-friends/ ). I also believe that nothing has to come between somebody and his big ambitions. Sometimes in life some people or some experience will make us feel like we can’t achieve something but we have to look at those bad experience as a motivation to go forward instead of a cause to holding us back.

How to get a scholarship as an international student in America

Getting scholarships as an international student in the USA is common. The path required to get the scholarship of course is not motivating but with a little bit of effort, if we search at the right place and apply to them we might get a chance of being the one selected.

America’s education attracts a lot of international students. It may be because universities are prestigious, fun or because they offer an environment that we fit in or it can be for any other reason. But the major barrier is the cost. Compared to other European countries American universities are way too pricy.  In France for example, the tuition of the best universities there vary from three to twenty times cheaper than the Out Of State tuition (international students pay that) in American universities.

However to make up for that high cost, a lot of scholarships are given and for some of them, international students are eligible too. Here is a list of the types of scholarships that international students are more likely to get:

  • Centennial scholarship. I think this is one of the best. This scholarship is for Transfer students and freshman. It accepts international students and provides full tuition, room/rent, and books. It’s a great scholarship and the best part is that they offer Centennial scholarship here at JMU and I know many people who are in it.
  • Merit scholarship. This type of scholarship is based on one’s grades (GPA) and achievements. It’s for people who are currently enrolled in a University. The best way to get more information about that is  to get in touch with the financial aid office of the University.
  • Governmental scholarships from back home. This is really common among the international students.
  • Private scholarships from outside of the university.
  • Small scholarships. It is really common to see a scholarship of 500 dollars. People usually would not bother apply for those and that’s a mistake because those small ones are easier to obtain than the really competitive ones.

To find a scholarship as an international student, one can also look on Google for some popular scholarships and see if the University of interest is eligible for these scholarships. We can also go to the data base of the University and look at the scholarships that they offer there.
One can also submit application and get matched with scholarships that we qualify for (fast web scholarship for example.) Once again word of mouth is a powerful tool: we may have some friends that applied to some scholarships and might know about some really good ones so talking to other people about our plans can be good sometimes.

If scholarships do not work out, don’t give up. International students are also eligible for some types of loans (but there is usually a limit to the amount of money that international students can get.)

Here is the recap on how to get a scholarship:
- If you are about to go to a new university then Centennial Scholarship is a good option.
- Keep good grades and get merit based scholarships
- Get information about some governmental scholarship from back home
- Talk to friends about it they might know some
- Take chances applying to small scholarships

When it comes to education, there should be no barrier, not even the cost! Everyone deserves the right to get education. Scholarships and grants make it more affordable so taking chances applying to them is the best decision or someone else will take the chance.

International students of JMU share their own culture

International students from Asia performing in the cultural show at JMU

The presence of international students at James Madison University is highly felt wherever you are. By walking on campus, one can appreciate different faces from different countries. JMU is one of those places where people will ask you where you are from, not because they think you should not be here but because they are marveled about your presence in the US and want to know even more about you.

With a growing number of international students, we felt the need to be heard more. To show the international students community how important they are, organizations at JMU often host culture shows to educate people around how it is overseas. The culture shows are usually performed by students of the organization presenting the show. This year both the African continent and the Asian continent got to display their student talents at the show and entertained the audience with a rich culture and really pretty clothes that are not common in the USA:

Teaching the university about Africa

  • At the beginning of February, the African Student Organization (ASO), composed of members from Ghana, Nigeria, Ethiopia, many countries in Africa and even some American members organized “Taste Of Africa”. The show was mostly about some misconceptions people have about Africa. We educated the audience about the “Africa” that they do not show on TV, the “Africa” seen as continent (not a country) rich in culture and the Africa that attracts many westerners. At the end of the show we all enjoyed some African traditional dishes such as peanut butter sauce and some other diverse food.
  • Later on the Vietnamese Student Association (VSA) came up with a precious culture show named “Hunger Culture” (similar idea as the “Hunger Games”). They had dances with Vietnamese attires and they did some other performances.
  • The Chinese Students and Scholars Association (CSSA) celebrated the Chinese New Year with Singing contest and some Chinese food.
  • ISA (International Student Association) culture show is coming in March.

By having all these “culture shows” organized by the students, we spread awareness of some cultural habits in our own countries.

Besides the one day celebration of the culture shows, JMU goes even a step further by having classes with the goal of teaching students about other cultures and issues they are facing. For example the “Africana program” teaches students about a side of Africa that they do not know about.

Yours truly - sharing the richness of African drum music

At JMU, we also have something called “Conversation Partner” that matches an international student with an American student and they have to meet once a week and share about their cultures. It’s a great way to learn about a culture because we get to interact with an “insider” and we can ourselves teach our friends what we’ve learned about other cultures. When it comes to spread awareness, “word of mouth” is a powerful means.

The International students might be far from home, but the growing international students’ community at JMU helps us feel more like home: “Motherland is far from the eyes but is and will remain close to the heart”.

 

Turning 21 in Junior year at University in America

One of the aspects of college life that attracts many people is how much fun one can have once in college when the parents are not here anymore to tell you what to do and not to do. In America, I would say there are 2 “golden ages”: the first one is 18 and the second one is at 21. When graduating from high school, many people are excited to finally get to live on their own and do to do whatever they want at University in America.

Turning 21 at University in the USA!

21 at last - now I'm "legally" responsible!

I just turned 21! Just like last year, I got invited to my friend’s host family house where they had a cake for me. Having such wonderful people to celebrate with makes my stay in the USA a lot easier.  21 years, or what people call here the “age of being legal” is the age when someone finally has the permission to do in public what he/she couldn’t do before. This age turns people crazy in America – at 21, one can “drink” legally (But not in the street!).

Being 21 means a lot of things for a college student:

  1. First your ID or driver’s license changes. Instead of being vertical, is converted to a horizontal shape ID.
  2. When you reach Junior Year, apartment parties and occasional on campus parties start to become too common and not as exciting as it was when you were freshman. That’s why lot’s of juniors and seniors once they receive this horizontal ID they go Downtown to have fun. Fortunately JMU is well surrounded by bars, few clubs (not as big as it is in DC) and other places where one can have a good time. The most common ones at JMU are: “Artful Dodger” which is couple minutes drive from JMU. The music is pretty varied depending on the day. But on Thursday they have one of my favorites which is Salsa and that’s when most JMU people go. We also have a hookah lounge called “Vibe” which is not too far from campus either. Usually people go there to relax and have a chill conversation. Finally one that attracts people for its food is “Dona Rosa” which is a Mexican bar where they serve pretty good food.
  3. It just sounds cooler when you just meet someone and tell him/her you are 21. Everybody here expresses a sort of excitement on their face when you tell them you are 21 or just turned 21.
  4. Being more responsible. 18 and 19 years are ages where you can be young and do stuffs without worrying too much because you still have time to change. But around the age 21 and up all that we do will foster our personality and may stay part of who we are and it gets harder to change.

To sum up, being 21 means having the “Green light” to go to clubs and enter the adult world of nightlife. It also means being more responsible at University because there is another phase after graduation.

Happy Valentine’s Day to everybody and “Love thy neighbor” and be happy J

5 ways to save money on college textbooks

University students are always looking to save money on textbooks. One thing that University books are known for is how expensive they are! Sometimes some people avoid taking certain classes after finding out the price of the book. Some others will rush to take a class because it does not require any book.

When I came here, at the beginning I didn’t know about any other way to buy books except at the bookstore. Of course it cost me a lot of money and I was wondering if everybody on campus does the same thing or if there are other ways.

Save money on college textbooksBy getting to know people, I found out about how to get books way cheaper. I first discovered about the college student book exchange. At JMU, a Facebook page was created so people selling their book or people who want to buy books can connect better. The one at JMU is named “JMU Undergrad Book Exchange”. I saved up to $200 each semester by purchasing my books there.

There are also some other ways of buying books through other organizations. At JMU for example I know about BellTower. They buy books from college students and resell it to other college students. So we can make money by selling them our book and we can also buy books for a cheaper price.

Sometimes, the book we are looking for may not be found on that Facebook page but we still want to save money; there is also the possibility to order online. I would recommend doing that at least a week before school starts because sometimes it takes a little while before your order gets to you. The cheapest way to that I found out about is by going on some “Compare Price websites” by typing “compare price” on Google and it’s usually the first link that comes up. All you have to do is write the name of your book and different website selling the book will appear from the cheapest to the most expensive. Buying online sometimes even comes cheaper than buying from other college students. But the problem with ordering books in advance is that sometimes the teacher asks for a different book. But to overcome that, if we know for sure that we will take a class we can email the teacher before school starts and make sure.

Another way to get books at a low cost and that many of us don’t know about or wouldn’t be willing to do is to participate in some kind of volunteer within the University and the University can give you a great discount on book prices. For example for taking good notes in one of my class and scanning them on the website, one get up to 20% on all purchase made at the bookstore.

However the cheapest way is if you are lucky and have met some really nice people, you can also borrow books from them for free!

Here’s a recap; how to save money on college textbooks:

  1. see if your university has a college student book exchange set up
  2. find a second hand bookstore that buys and sells textbooks
  3. order books online
  4. volunteer at the University to get discounted books
  5. borrow your textbooks ;)

How I found out about all this (otherwise I would still be paying half a thousand for my books), is by making connections/socialize with people around campus.

Happy savings!